1️⃣ Order for both of you. Don’t ask, don’t explain. Two simple cappuccinos. Then wait. 2️⃣ If he immediately snaps: “Why did you decide for me? Maybe I don’t even like that coffee!” This isn’t about taste—it’s about emotional stability. A man who panics or takes offense over a $5 drink isn’t grounded. If a small choice rattles him, imagine what real stress will do. 3️⃣ If he calmly corrects you: “Thanks, but I usually take it black—mind if I swap?” This is confidence without aggression. He can