Repetition compulsion is a concept introduced by Freud and later expanded in trauma theory and somatic psychology. It describes the way our nervous system unconsciously seeks to resolve what was overwhelming or unfinished in childhood by repeating familiar relational patterns. This isn’t weakness, pathology, or “choosing the wrong people.” It’s a survival loop. The moment you bring awareness, boundaries, breath, or self-compassion into the pattern, you’re not just changing behavior — you’re repa

Repetition compulsion is a term coined by Freud, but its impact is deeply personal. Trauma survivors often find themselves unconsciously re-creating the pain they grew up with—drawn to relationships that mirror early wounds. Not because they want to suffer, but because, deep down, they believe this time they can be enough. If they love hard enough, change enough, stay quiet enough… maybe this time, they’ll finally be chosen, protected, or seen.This is the nervous system seeking mastery through f

Autism Spectrum Disorder and Aggressive/ Repetitive Behaviours in Different Environment