Bride mode, activated! Selena Gomez is fully consumed with planning her wedding to Benny Blanco, and an insider says minor details of the luxe affair — reportedly set for Montecito in September — have become overwhelming.

Planning a wedding can be stressful and overwhelming, and this is a great reminder that regardless of everything else, it should remain a celebration of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s love.

While the soon-to-be-married singer and music producer have noted they're not rushing down the aisle, here's what they've said about wedding planning so far.